I'm sure I read this book as a child but when I rediscovered it, some time around lil'daddy's birth, I couldn't recall any lucid memories of it. After Counting Blessings and I read it, we both decided that we would not actively expose the boy to it. I guess we weren't sure it's appropriateness for our young boy and decided to take a cautious approach. At the time, I didn't think I'd feel comfortable reading the story to him. -reading about the insatiable leech of a boy and the selfless tree that allows itself to be completely consumed. Neither was a model I wanted the boy to emulate.
I don't want to totally bash the story because I, in fact, like it. I just couldn't understand why it seemed to be lauded as such a great children's book. When considering the book for child consumption there is just something about the exaggeration of the underlying 'truth' of using others and being used up that doesn't seem toddler-age appropriate. Today, lil'daddy saw the "The Giving Tree" on the shelf at Border Books.
We typically go to a book store a couple times a week to peruse the children's section and see what's new. We take a few books, sit down, read them, put them back, find a couple more, sit, read and so forth. Today, lil'daddy included "The Giving Tree" as one of our books to read. He read it front to back on his own as I watched his reaction. As the tree began to loose it's branches and trunk, lil'daddy's reading became more and more pensive. His facial expression was becoming more and more quizzical. His body began to lean away from the book. I thought he was not going to want to finish but he kept reading through the remaining pages. At the end, I quietly awaited his reaction. Looking a little disturbed, he calmly tells me, "I don't like that book." When I asked him why, on cue he replies, "because the tree was happy... but not really".
That was almost a direct quote from the book. I don't think I could have answered my own question so succinctly. I don't think I could have wanted him to answer differently either. My boy continues to amaze me!